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Don’t Date Them!- How to Spot & Avoid Mr./Ms. Wrong
Event on 2012-01-01 19:00:00

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*Note: Be sure to register with a valid email and phone number. The day of the class you will be sent atext message and email giving you the call in number and pass code needed to participate in this teleclass.

This will be a 75-90 minute class

All participants will receive an 18 page E-guide that includes all fo the info discussed in this teleclass.

You know the drill. You had a great few dates with a man or woman you just met, everything seems to be going well and then – BAM! – they either fade or send you a Dear Jane/John text. What happened?

Nothing. These people were going to Fade eventually. What we'll discuss in this teleclass is how to spot them so you can avoid future frustrations and sniff out whether s/he's available or not.

Types of wo/men will discuss:

The Attention Hound - They have stories about their "crazy" ex and a slew of opposite sex friends, but few same sex ones. Learn things they look for when picking their next "victim."

The Ego Dater - He/She doesn't really want an emotional connection. They re not even in it for the sex. They just someone to keep around for the validation that having a relationship provides.

The Tester- They ve been burnt so badly because they've chosen poorly in the past that they don t trust. They test their dates and want them to jump through hoops to prove how invested they are.

The Shamer - Rather than make themselves vulnerable and admit to feeling hurt or used or confused, The Shamer will hone in on a weak spot in order to emotionally cripple you. The intention is to make the other person vulnerable so they can get what they want.

The Passive Aggressor - These people don t know how to effectively communicate feelings of frustration, anger or hurt. Rather than address these issues directly, their anger manifests in other ways or in unrelated conversations. The Passive Aggressor also can manipulate situations so that they become the focus.

The Time Waster - These people are commonly found online. They re using the site more for entertainment than anything else. They never had much intention of meeting anyone. They simply signed on to see how much attention or responses they could get.

In addition to how to spot the time wasters, we'll discuss how to navigate the "new" dating landscape. Between the changes in our economy and workforce, to our dependence on social media and technology, there's been a swift and possibly lasting shift in the singles scene.

"Not sure you get to read these. Well, if you do, Thanks for giving me the confidence to get back out there. After being married for many years, it was strange to get out and attempt to meet someone. I attended your dating group Q&A about reading signs etc and right after the meeting had dinner with someone from the group. After that I had the confidence to follow through with some other women. It has resulted in being with my girlfriend for over 3 years now. We have a great relationship. Thanks for helping me bring out the best in me. – C from NY"

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Date Smarter Salon for Singles
Event on 2011-12-19 19:00:00

You live in a major metropolitan city. You'd thinking finding someone special would be a breeze, right?

Well..it can be. You can meet the love of your life at the corner bodega, at the gym, on Facebook or Match.com or on the L train. You just need to know how to optimize your opportunities, learn how to spot and avoid the time wasters and make the right impression.

Join other singles – male and female – to learn how to navigate the current dating landscape. Get feedback from the opposite sex and get inside their mind.

There will be a seminar AND open forum portion so you can discuss specific issues.

SCHEDULED TOPICS:

~Online Dating – How to spot and deal with the time wasters, what behaviors are common, how to make first contact and take thing soff line

~Maintaining Privacy/Security

*Did you know someone can do a Google Image search of your dating profile photos or email address/phone number and get yall kinds of private info?

*How much dating re-con work should you do? How much is considered a violation of privacy?

*How does Facebook and Twitter help/hinder dating and relationships?

~Dating & Sex – Is There Such a Thing As Having Sex Too Soon? –

*How long will a man wait for a woman to decide if she's ready to take thing to a physical level?

*Do men really judge women for having sex after just 1-3 dates?

~Dating & Finances -

*How has dating changed in the new economy?

*Who pays?

*How have gender roles changed?

~Dating & Commitment

*Why do they act like aboyfriend/girlfriend but won't commit?

*Are people committing any more? Why or why not?

*Why do there seem to be more casual and/or Faux-lationships?

There is no such thing as traditional dating rules anymore. Let's talk about what has changed and how (or whether you should) adapt.

  • Be sure to register with your valid email and cell phone number. The day of the class you will receive the call in number and PIN code to access this teleclass. You will receive this notification via email AND text.
  • Only 10 spots available for this teleclass.
  • Must call in to the teleclass no later than 10 minutes before the advertised start time.
  • Class will last 75-90 minutes


"Not sure you get to read these. Well, if you do, Thanks for giving me the confidence to get back out there. After being married for many years, it was strange to get out and attempt to meet someone. I attended your dating group Q&A about reading signs etc and right after the meeting had dinner with someone from the group. After that I had the confidence to follow through with some other women. It has resulted in being with my girlfriend for over 3 years now. We have a great relationship. Thanks for helping me bring out the best in me. – C from NY"

READ TESTIMONIALS FROM PAST SEMINAR ATTENDEES:

http://andthatswhyyouresingle.com/testimonials/

READ MY BIO:

http://andthatswhyyouresingle.com/guest-speakerwriting-opportunities/

FEATURED IN:


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420 Amsterdam Avenue
New York, United States

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